7 SIGNS YOU ARE DATING SOMEONE EMOTIONALLY UNSTABLE
When a person is said to be emotionally unstable, what it means is that the individual’s reaction to issues is unpredictable. The person’s behavior is a disorder or has an altitudinal defect. It is very difficult to be in a relationship with an emotionally unstable kind of personality and sometimes it also is frustrating. Because you are not able to understand what to do to please or annoy them. Sometime, they may approve or sometimes they react violently to the same thing.
Generally, an angry emotionally unstable partner can be brutal. Emotional instability is different from emotional immaturity. The latter refers to a formative phase in one’s life where one is still discovering oneself. It is usually transitory; it has nothing to do with being immature. It often arises as a result of a fault in upbringing or a personality disorder. Before you get into someone or they get into you, it is usually good to first ascertain their emotional stability. In the current scenario, one of the leading causes of marital and relationship break up is an emotional incompatibility.
In this article, Delhi’s eminent marriage counselor and relationship expert Shivani Misri Sadhoo talk about 7 signs you are dating someone emotionally unstable.
In life, at one point everyone has to take impulsive decisions and it doesn’t mean that everyone is unstable. But a person takes a decision which damages their own property because they didn’t take time to think it through, then such kind of person is unstable emotionally. For example, a partner who is into gambling or play without planning of finance is looser always. They may agree to a contract without taking time to thoroughly study and understand its terms and conditions. They only get to regret later when the contract is now taking its effect on them. So, when you are dating take care of their decision. It is going to be up to you to decide whether to continue with them or leave.
Violent the reaction comes when they get angry because they easily lose their control and injure the valuable property. For a healthy person, they have some limitations of expression of their anger but they don’t have any kind of boundary for anger and this is a serious issue for a healthy relationship when you are going to make.
Hardly Show Emotions
Emotional instability as the expression of extreme negative behavior but there is a subtle symptom of this personality disorder. For example, a normal person would scream at the sight of a horrible scene but an emotionally unstable individual may react differently. Most of the times, if you are walking with such a person, you may constantly see yourself as a fool because the things you would expect them to react to normal, they won’t.
Constantly Get Tired
One may notice symptoms of emotional instability such as being incessant and extreme fatigue. The reason behind emotional disorder is psychological effects. It is the fact that they easily feel fatigued and exhausted without doing any physical exercise. Their mind is always cluttered and full with a lot of negative thoughts and useless thoughts, the brain storage is full & trying to free the mind from such thought. And it might lead to getting weak or stressed out in a short interval of time.
Blame For Their Error
In the case of being unstable emotionally, the person in front of him is always wrong except himself and for this reason, the partner of such kind of personality should be too strong to present their views on the discussion going on. Whenever any misfortune occurs, they start yelling and blaming for the same. Actually, there are times or circumstances when we are not directly responsible for what befalls us and not able to control accordingly
Find Hard To Sleep
Not being able to sleep when required is something anyone can experience who has an emotionally unstable mind. Most of the time, the mind is not at peace which doesn’t let them sleep. For people with unstable emotions, their minds are usually overactive. While they lay on the bed, their minds are usually wondering about frivolous things.
Hard To Forgive
Forgiveness is a thing which directly comes from the heart and a healthy mind can do it. Because in forgiveness first surrender one’s right and then letting go of wrong things. Sometimes they say that they have forgiven but when they go back in the memory and search out the things in their mind then they still carry with them.
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