Generally, in today’s lifestyle, couples find their mornings chaotic; there is a pressure to send kids to school, get themselves ready for the office, finish household chores and so on. Similarly, on weekends they get up late to supplement their weekday tiredness & sleep.
According to eminent relationship expert and marriage counsellor Shivani Misri Sadhoo, couples need to find a few minutes every morning to connect with each other. Otherwise, day-to-day professional and household pressure may weaken their romantic bond. Counselor Shivani suggests that connecting with your partner in every morning does not need much effort and time rather it can be done by the following 6 things that the happiest couples do every morning.
1. Happy couples try to get up at the same time (if they don’t work on different or odd work shifts): The first step to finding a few minutes with your spouse is to get up together at the same time. To achieve this goal, a couple should try to bring a disciplined routine of going to bed on time.
2. They Enjoy A Cup Of Tea Or Coffee Together: Having tea together is another great way to keep in touch with each other. Prior to a challenging morning start, the couples may get up 10 minutes early and sit together to have their tea. Even if it’s only for 15-20 minutes, they have their coffee talk about plans for the day and watch the beauty of nature if they sit in their balcony.
3. They Make Eye ContactHappy couples often brush their teeth together. For those few minutes, couples look into each other’s eyes. They usually, touch each other, a hand on the waist, a gentle touch on the cheek or head on the chest.
4. They Share Up The Morning Chores: Getting the kids up, and preparing them off to school every morning can be a tough task. Usually, we think that it’s the mom’s job. But happy couples share these kinds of family and parental responsibilities. Acting, as a team in the morning, builds connection and relationship happiness that carries throughout the day.
5. They Bid Kiss Goodbye: It is very important for a couple to always show affection to each other before they leave for their respective offices. For example, if a husband or wife leaves home for work an hour before the wife or husband gets up so they always say goodbye with a kiss on their forehead. It’s not about needing the affection but more so knowing that he or she is thinking of them before they head off to work.
Relationship Expert, Psychologist & Marriage Counsellor, Founder at at Saarthi Counselling Services
Couples Counselor Shivani Misri Sadhoo is widely regarded as one of the best relationship expert and marriage counsellor in in Delhi and India. She is known for her expertise in guiding individuals and couples through emotionally challenging times.
Shivani Misri Sadhoo specializes in
infidelity recovery, pre-marital counseling,
marriage counseling, couples therapy,
CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy),
DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy), EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy), relationship issues, separation and divorce, child and adolescent concerns, depression, anxiety, grief and loss. She is also one of the leading online couples therapists in India and for couples who are living in the US, the UK, Australia, Europe and Dubai.
A Certified Neuro-Linguistic Practitioner and a
Level 3 Trained Gottman Method Couples Therapist , Marriage Counselor Shivani Sadhoo integrates modern therapeutic techniques with a warm, client-centered approach to create lasting transformation in her clients’ lives.
Counsellor Shivani is currently working with India 's top hospital groups like Fortis Hospital (former),
IBS (Indian Brain & Spine) Hospital
Call Counselor: +91-8860875040Email:saarthiforlife@gmail.com
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