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One of the hardest things to do in a relationship is to be nice to your partner when you\u2019re upset with them. It\u2019s also one of the most important moments to be kind.The act of not choosing kindness is therefore doubly hurtful to our partners and to ourselves because it undercuts our efforts for growth and the potential for greater intimacy.<\/p>\n
I see couples in my chamber who want to \u201csolve\u201d their issues first before going out for an ice cream or relaxing over dinner. It will never work. It\u2019s not possible to solve problems with someone you don\u2019t want to collaborate with.<\/span><\/p>\n I often encourage couples to do an activity together to enjoy their love \u2013 despite their insinuations! It is much easier to discuss problems with your best friend than with your enemy.<\/p>\n It\u2019s easier to offer a smile and to extend an olive branch to the person who is in the struggle with us \u2013 not against us.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n About the author: \u00a0<\/strong>Counsellor Shivani Misri Sadhoo is the consulting Counsellor at Fortis Hospital, IBS (Indian Brain & Spine) Hospital and with Express Clinics.\u00a0She has served\u00a0over thousands plus happy & satisfied individual and couples in India and abroad.\u00a0She is one of India’s eminent Marriage Counsellor & Relationship Expert, who is frequently been\u00a0featured by leading newspapers, magazines and TV channels.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Why should you try to always be nice to your Partner suggests marriage counsellor Shivani Misri Sadhoo<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[7,5,51],"tags":[56,16,57,27,54,52,55,53,15],"class_list":["post-98","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-marriage-counselling-services-at-saarthi","category-marriage-counselling-tips","category-marriage-counsellor-shivani-misri-sadhoo-best-in-delhi","tag-best-marriage-counselling-services-at-saarthi-counselling","tag-best-marriage-counsellor-in-noida","tag-best-psychologist-in-delhi","tag-marital-therapist-in-delhi","tag-marriage-counsellor-in-vasant-kunj","tag-marriage-counsellor-shivani-misri-sadhoo-best-in-delhi","tag-relationship-counsellor-in-delhi","tag-top-marriage-counsellor-in-delhi","tag-who-is-the-best-marriage-counsellor-in-delhi"],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n