{"id":881,"date":"2021-04-28T08:42:15","date_gmt":"2021-04-28T08:42:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.saarthicounsellingservices.com\/blog\/?p=881"},"modified":"2024-10-17T14:58:29","modified_gmt":"2024-10-17T14:58:29","slug":"you-might-be-in-a-situationship-best-online-marriage-counselor-in-india","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.saarthicounsellingservices.com\/blog\/you-might-be-in-a-situationship-best-online-marriage-counselor-in-india\/","title":{"rendered":"Are You Facing Uncertainty in Your Relationship?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

So, you have been seeing someone for a few months now (yes, that person you met perhaps on a dating site). You think (or more like you hope) they are not seeing anyone else. You know their favorite type of food, music, their father\u2019s name, and may even have a toothbrush at their house. However, even though you are kind of in a relationship, there still has not been any talk of commitment or even exclusivity. Does this seem familiar? Well, if this sounds like it is describing your relationship perfectly, then you are perhaps in a \u201csituationship\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Relationship Counselor Shivani<\/a> says ss the latest relationship trend on the block, a situationship is actually when you and another person are doing things that normal couples do, but you are not actually a couple. In between a hook-up and a relationship, situationship is that in-between grey zone where no one truly knows what is going on. Situationships may last months or even years in several cases but, given the reality, they involve catching feelings, it will finally end in two methods. Either you are going to DTR (define the relationship) or someone decides to move on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, if you see yourself relating to these signs, as said by Delhi\u2019s top Marriage Counselor and Relationship Expert Shivani Misri Sadhoo<\/a><\/strong> in this blog, then have a peek into it, that you may be in a \u201csituationship\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Run-Ins with a Friend or Relatives are Awkward<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Have you ever bumped into a relative or friend while you are with the person you are seeing and not known what to introduce them as?  With responses with pauses like Uhm, this is my friend?\u2019 or \u2018Uh, this is his\/her name, you know you are in a situationship. This is due to the fact that you haven\u2019t truly defined what you are both doing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Not at All Making Future Plans with Each Other<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The majority of the people in committed relationships will be making plans for their future, such as birthday plans or deciding to book event tickets that would not be for another six to eight months. If you are in a situationship though, you might never make plans that are more than a week in advance, preferring to simply live in the moment. You may also still be going to events such as wedding ceremonies or New Year\u2019s events alone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You Have Never Meet Each Other\u2019s Friends or Colleagues<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

On the first note, apart from the awkward run-ins, you have not officially met each other\u2019s friends or colleagues.  Meeting friends usually, signifies that the relationship has the ability to be long-term. Several people do not want to introduce someone to their friends if they would be around next week. Introducing them indicates commitment. Whereas in a situationship, at most in this kind of relationship the closest you can perhaps come to making a commitment is to begin watching a new web series together at most. Nothing more than that. *<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

There are a Few Taboos<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Being in a situationship, you tend to always be playing a game of chicken while texting. So, if one of you doesn\u2019t respond for a long time, you cannot easily just ask what is going on. Lack of commitment means you do not wish to appear as the needy or clingy one, since you are technically not even in a defined relationship. Also, you are certainly not on each other\u2019s social media too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You Have Sleepovers Regularly<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It does not feel necessary to leave straight away post-sex because you do not simply go over to hook-up. Even though your relationship could be largely physical, you still do plenty of the domesticated activities that couples normally do.  You stay overnight at each other\u2019s places, have breakfast, and even have your toothbrush at their homes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You Have Feelings for Each Other But Not Love, But You Simply Never Talks About This<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Despite not admitting it to the person you are seeing, you have certainly caught feelings. However, you do not love them. Communication is vital in a serious relationship, but in situationships people merely tend not to talk about their true feelings. While it could be fun for a while, it is essential to bear in mind that the uncertainty may get a bit too much eventually.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What happens if you\nget yourself in a situationship?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are dating in\n2021 and a millennial, then you will possibly find yourself in a situationship.\nIf you are not already in one now. Millennials somewhat specifically tend to be\n\u201cscared of the responsibility and expectation that comes along with the label\ngirlfriend or boyfriend and so the \u2018what are we\u2019 conversation simply never\nhappens.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

While pressure and label-free relationship sound good, but one never knows situationships can actually be quite toxic. The repeated uncertainty of the other person\u2019s feelings and thoughts can rapidly turn from exciting to exhausting. The worst thing is that when a situationship finishes, you say to yourself that you cannot get even properly upset about it because it was not even theoretically a relationship. Situationships are not for everyone. If it is not what you actually wish, then get out of it immediately. Put yourself first and never settle for anything you do not deserve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Your Counselor Is Now Just Skype\/Video Call Away<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

During the current challenging time, it\u2019s common to experience anxiety<\/strong>, depression<\/strong>, sleeplessness<\/strong>, and relationship<\/strong> challenges<\/strong> at home. While you are under lockdown and maintaining social distancing norms to help the country to control COVID-19 spread, your very own counsellor Shivani is now just a call and Skype video call away from you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, in this age of coronavirus, we hope to offer our\ntherapeutic help. Change is difficult for all of us and changing the way you\nmeet with your therapist is no exception. \nBut try it before you disregard this option.  This is a challenging moment in time, and\nfears and anxieties are running high. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You may find, telepsychology isn\u2019t a second-rate option.\nInstead, it\u2019s an effective and efficient upgrade to a valuable service! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Feel free to call Counselor<\/strong> Shivani Misri Sadhoo\nat +91-8860875040<\/strong> for telephonic or video support and to book an online\ncounselling session to address any relationship issues, emotional and psychological\nchallenges.<\/p>\n\n\n\n


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