{"id":820,"date":"2021-02-26T10:24:05","date_gmt":"2021-02-26T10:24:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.saarthicounsellingservices.com\/blog\/?p=820"},"modified":"2024-10-18T04:00:06","modified_gmt":"2024-10-18T04:00:06","slug":"best-marriage-counselor-in-delhi-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.saarthicounsellingservices.com\/blog\/best-marriage-counselor-in-delhi-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Reasons Why Listening Boosts Relationships"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

If you are not driving, you are sleeping, and if you are at work you are texting, writing e-mails and talking, but rarely listening, means actually, listening.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Listening seems to be a declining skill because listening means absolute listening and nothing else Not thinking of tomorrow\u2019s activity, the \u201cTo Do\u201d list and the growing message inbox. Relationship Experts Shivani says listening is such a passive act that several of you simply do not do it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Some studies have indicated that one typically remembers merely 25 to 30% of what one hears. However, \u2018Active Listening\u2019 can enhance that figure enormously. One of the methods to use \u2018Active Listening\u2019 is to remember the mostly-used expression that \u201ceyes and ears must be used in the same proportion they have been allocated to you.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In today\u2019s digital world one seems to be constantly playing catch up with voice calls, e-mails, meetings, and ever-expanding tight deadlines. As a result, one seems to be \u201cbroadcasting\u201d all the time but quite rarely listening to what is essential.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The kids tend to watch television whilst texting their friends and doing homework. How do they do that? Actually, the answer is that they cannot do all those things well at the same time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, is it that essential? Yes, it is. If one doesn\u2019t truly listen one does not get the actual message being communicated. If one doesn\u2019t get the real message then one can\u2019t act appropriately.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you really want to boost relationships and grow your business then you have to work towards good listening. Here are some of the reasons shared by Delhi\u2019s top marriage counselor and relationship expert Shivani Misri Sadhoo<\/a><\/strong> why listening boosts relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

How Listening To Your Partner Can Boost Your Relationships<\/strong>?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

You Can Gain Information<\/strong> – If you listen, truly listen; you can learn things about the person, be it your spouse, kids or colleague, their aspirations, their fears, their work, and what you may be able to help them with.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There is so much of the spoken meanings hidden in inflexion, tone, and expression, so listening is critical for understanding and gaining information. And as you all know, information is power. It lets you fashion the necessary responses and strategies to assist the person to whom you are listening.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Increases Your Accuracy<\/strong> – When you listen genuinely, you have a better recollection of vital facts and issues. This can result in fewer miscommunications and errors and makes you more efficient and have more value in your relationships both personal and professional ones.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You Build Trust<\/strong> – When you give your entire attention to the persons expressing thoughts and experiences that are essential to them, they are possibly to see you as a person who really thinks and cares about them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you are obviously paying attention to that person and you refrain from interjecting opinions, judgments, and advice, or finishing their sentences, you are seen as someone who cares and can be truly trusted with their information and confidence. This develops trust and later on bonding.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You Form A Relationship<\/strong> – When you listen properly to the other individual\u2019s point of view a real conversation can arise. A meaningful and informed conversation can take place rather than sound bites being chosen and conclusions jumped to. When this genuine interaction takes place, you naturally form a relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The biggest problem in today\u2019s hectic world is that one does not often bother to listen to things carefully, as a result, more friction takes place. Because others perceive that you do not have time for them. This is often the beginning of a collapsing relationship. So, when you are in conversation, let\u2019s be certain to do everything you can to make sure you are being an Active Listener.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It is active listening which leads to solid relationships and relationships are built through several human attributes. At the base of these attributes is LISTENING.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Your Counselor Is Now Just Skype\/Video Call Away<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

During the current challenging time, it\u2019s common to experience anxiety<\/strong>, depression<\/strong>, sleeplessness<\/strong>, and relationship<\/strong> challenges<\/strong> at home. Feel free to call Counselor<\/strong> Shivani Misri Sadhoo at +91-8860875040<\/strong> for telephonic or video support and to book an online counselling session to address any relationship issues, emotional and psychological challenges.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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