{"id":423,"date":"2019-10-24T07:42:00","date_gmt":"2019-10-24T07:42:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.saarthicounsellingservices.com\/blog\/?p=423"},"modified":"2025-12-29T14:12:33","modified_gmt":"2025-12-29T14:12:33","slug":"relationship-habits-pushing-partner-away","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.saarthicounsellingservices.com\/blog\/relationship-habits-pushing-partner-away\/","title":{"rendered":"Common Behaviors That Are Secretly Pushing Your Partner Away"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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Relationships, no\nmatter how new or old, is one of the most beautiful parts\nof your life. When you are in love\nwith your partner, it seems as if everything around you is\nnon-existent and that anything could be conquered simply through love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Although that may be true when you mix in specific relationship behaviors, things can become turbulent between you two and in turn, might make things to get vulnerable very quickly. What\u2019s even worse is when you know the behaviors you have exhibited or encountered are unhealthy, but you simply choose to ignore them. In this article, Marriage Counselor, Relationship Expert, and Founder of Saarthi Counselling Services Shivani Misri Sadhoo<\/a> talks about things that pushes your partner away from you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Using Silent\nTreatment<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Although going\nsilent after a heated discussion with your partner may seem like\nthe best response, but this is a behavior that you should eliminate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Silent treatment\ndamages relationships and leads to less relationship satisfaction. Avoid this\ndamage inflicting treatment and instead communicate openly and honestly\nwith your partner<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Communication does\nnot mean confrontation. Opening up dialogue can assist you to get to\nthe root of your problem and solve it efficiently.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Assuming Your Partner Knows\nEverything<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Another behavior\nthat couples must stop is thinking that their partner knows\neverything without you telling them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Your partner cannot\nread your mind or know your needs\nunless you express them. It is not fair to assume\nthat your partner should be able to\ndetermine your every desire if you don’t tell them. Many\npeople are not good at reading minds. In good relationships, partners are\nhonest and decisive about expressing their needs, and their partners are the\nsame way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A good partner will\nnot think you are nagging simply because you are expressing\nwhat you need from your partner and telling them\nhow you feel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Being Passive\nAggressive<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Keeping your feelings\nto yourself will seem easier than expressing them while you are in a\nrelationship, but in reality, doing so could really\nhurt your relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Almost everybody is\nfamiliar with the situation when there is some problem and\none partner asks the other if they are upset and\nthe partner says, I am OK, but things are most certainly\nnot fine. If you are upset, the best way to do is to say\nso. You probably want to come off as non-confrontational, but\nultimately that will not do you or your relationship good.\nWhen you bottle up your emotions you can begin to\ndevelop resentments towards your partner. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Those can intensify\nand result in a huge disaster that could have been avoided\nif you just addressed the concern from the\nstart. Your partner is not certainly a mind reader, so if they\nask you, answer them honestly and communicate about it. Good communication\nwill always help your relationship grow further in a good direction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Obsessing\nOver Your Partner<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

While in love and\nsending cute text messages entire day to your partner may be\nnormal at first, but if you see yourself being too concerned with whatever\nthey do, this may be a big problem. This is actually an obsessive behavior.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It’s easy to get\ncaught up in the wind of romance, particularly when you first start\ndating, but this behavior can\ndestroy you and your relationship. When you start\nto get into obsessive thinking, you are slowly exerting up the\npressure on yourself and your partner. You may not know it\nbut you’re not giving the relationship space it requires to manifest as it\nsupposed to. Though it may seem as if you are only\nexpressing your love, being a bit too\ninto your partner can damage the chemistry.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Showing Your Relationship\nOn Social Media<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Since you live\nin the era of social media, it is quite easy to over-share in various aspects\nof your life and that includes your relationship. It is not\nacceptable to do this, particularly against your partner’s wishes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Instead of aiming\nto become relationship goals for social media, act on being the best\ncouple you can be in your real life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Letting Your Friends\nOr Relatives Get Involved In Your Relationship<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Whenever something\nbad or good is happening in your relationship, it’s natural to run\nto your friends or family members to discuss it. However, it is one\nof the biggest mistakes you can make and you should\neradicate it from your behavior.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you ask your friends\nabout things they may not agree. Few friends are not pro\nrelationships. Check who you trust to a small few and know that\ncertain topics are not at all for discussion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You should\nfeel easy enough to discuss your concerns with your partner before\ntaking them to another person.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Marriage Counsellor Shivani Misri Sadhoo reveals the subtle behaviours that push partners away. Identify the red flags and learn how to save your connection<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[156,187,7],"tags":[134,16,89,70,162,177,160,179,178,176,199,175,58],"class_list":["post-423","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-best-marriage-counseling-in-delhi","category-best-marriage-counselor-in-delhi","category-marriage-counselling-services-at-saarthi","tag-best-marriage-counseling-in-delhi","tag-best-marriage-counsellor-in-noida","tag-best-marriage-counselor-in-delhi","tag-best-psychologist-in-india","tag-counselor-shivani-misri-sadhoo","tag-east-delhi-top-marriage-counseling","tag-relationship-counseling-in-delhi","tag-renowned-marriage-counseling-in-delhi","tag-renowned-marriage-counselor-in-delhi","tag-south-delhis-best-marriage-counselor","tag-top-marriage-counseling-in-south-delhi","tag-top-marriage-counseling-services","tag-top-psychologist-in-delhi"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.saarthicounsellingservices.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/423","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.saarthicounsellingservices.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.saarthicounsellingservices.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.saarthicounsellingservices.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.saarthicounsellingservices.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=423"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.saarthicounsellingservices.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/423\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3063,"href":"https:\/\/www.saarthicounsellingservices.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/423\/revisions\/3063"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.saarthicounsellingservices.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=423"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.saarthicounsellingservices.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=423"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.saarthicounsellingservices.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=423"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}