{"id":386,"date":"2019-09-20T07:08:07","date_gmt":"2019-09-20T07:08:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.saarthicounsellingservices.com\/blog\/?p=386"},"modified":"2025-12-29T09:08:56","modified_gmt":"2025-12-29T09:08:56","slug":"lessons-learn-from-healthy-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.saarthicounsellingservices.com\/blog\/lessons-learn-from-healthy-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"Shivani Misri Sadhoo: What a Truly “Good” Relationship Teaches You"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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You may have had serious\nrelationships before meeting someone special. You thought you were an adult.\nYou thought you knew how to be a great partner. Meeting someone you have had a\nserious connection and thought you that nothing you had experienced before was\nreal. True love feels different as compared to casual relationships even when\nthose relationships lasted for years (often well past their shelf life!).\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you are in a good and strong\nrelationship, you learn things. You behave differently; you think as part of a\nteam, not as an individual making their way through the world. You are more\nconsiderate and accepting of your partner, instead of just getting frustrated\nwith them as you may have been in the past relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In this article, Delhi\u2019s top Marriage Counselor and Relationship Expert Shivani Misri Sadhoo<\/a> tells about when you are in a good relationship, you will learn these things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Misunderstandings Are Inevitable<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Misunderstandings are bound to\nhappen in your marital life. If you take your partner\u2019s words one way, then\nlearn they meant something else completely, don\u2019t punish them. Let it go.\nCriticizing all the time is only going to bruise the relationship and cause\ncommunication problems later. Sometimes what you say or do can be taken the\nother way around, and you will get frustrated that your partner does not understand.\nTake a step back and realize it is not a big deal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Misunderstandings only become a\nconcern if you let them grow bigger and mean more in the scope of your\nrelationship. Choose your battles wisely. Not every misunderstanding needs\nyour attention.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Learn To Trust Them<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You need to trust your partner.\nWhy would you share your life with someone when you think they are doing\nsomething improper every time you turn your back? If you cannot trust your\npartner to be faithful, honest, caring, or anything else, then you are not in a\ngood relationship. The best relationships start with deep trust, and even if\nproblems arise (and they will!), the trust is strong enough to keep you stay\ntogether.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Encourage Growth And Change<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

In a good marital relationship,\nboth partners are strengthened to grow and change. You have one life to live\nyou should explore it completely! If you want to quit your job and want to\nlearn something else, your partner must support you. If you want to try\nsomething new or go back to something old, you should get support in your\nrelationship. And you should be supportive in return. Motivate your partner to\nexplore hobbies and interests and meet new people. If you wish your partner to\nstay the same, you are bound to have a very boring life together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Admit Your Weaknesses<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Your partner never expects you to\nbe a superhero, and hopefully, you do not expect that of them as well. You are\nall human; you all have flaws. It\u2019s fine to let these shows. In fact, to have a\nbalanced, serious relationship, you need to let your weaknesses be known. Your\npartner will be more sensitive to things that bother you and can help develop\nyou up in areas where you need some help.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Show Your Feelings<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The worst thing you can do in a\nrelationship is to play games. Do not tease your partner; reward good deeds\nwith love and affection. You have to make sure that your partner feels loved.\nYou can be happy with them or be disappointed at them as long as you aren’t\ndisrespectful. They need to know about your feelings at the moment as well. \nBut make sure you\u2019re showing your feelings in a manner without being mean or\nnasty.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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