{"id":308,"date":"2019-04-25T11:44:47","date_gmt":"2019-04-25T11:44:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.saarthicounsellingservices.com\/blog\/?p=308"},"modified":"2025-12-29T05:04:20","modified_gmt":"2025-12-29T05:04:20","slug":"prewedding-anxieties-arrange-marriage-tips-counseling-services-in-delhi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.saarthicounsellingservices.com\/blog\/prewedding-anxieties-arrange-marriage-tips-counseling-services-in-delhi\/","title":{"rendered":"Pre-Wedding Anxieties? Here are 4 Warning Signs that should tell you to say NO to a Marriage Proposal"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Today, Indian girls are touching skies in the field of the profession, research, the army and whatnot. But still, we are socially and culturally programmed where girls’ parents have to spend excessively on the wedding day, and still, educated Indians have been witnessed to take and give dowry in the name of social customs.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Unfortunately, following these cultural and social norms, lot of people develop the perception that the wedding day is THE VITAL day of their and their loved one’s life. Sadly, people often forget that a wedding day is just,\u00a0only one day<\/strong>. What truly matters is the fact that man and women\u2019s commitment to spend their rest of life with one another.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hence a lot of time, due to months-long mental pressures, tensions, and financial burden for preparing the ONE wedding day, bride and bride\u2019s parents \u2013 OFTEN ignore warning signs from the man (bridegroom).\u00a0 These signs could tell them that the man is not right for the girl.\u00a0This is one of the major triggers that result in a failed selection of a bridegroom in an arranged marriage setup.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

India\u2019s leading relationship and marriage counsellor<\/a> Shivani Misri Sadhoo shares that never ignore any doubt at any point before the wedding. These doubts may come in the form of wedding jitters, bridal nerves, cold feet. But what you shouldn’t do is ignore the fact that your subconscious might be signaling an alarm that something is not right. So yes, pay attention to those lurking doubts you’re having because they’re acting as indicators that trouble might lay ahead!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here are some of the major warning signs that tell every girl, and her parents, that the guy is not right:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Cheated once before<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

The psychological fact states that people\u2019s core\nnature never changes. If the prospective bridegroom has cheated someone before,\nthere is a very BIG chance that he will repeat the same. Don\u2019t hold wrong\nexpectations if you came across this information, it does not matter if you end\nup becoming world\u2019s best wife or not in the future, people generally tend to\nfollow their tendencies with due course of time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Puts you down in front of his friends<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

If you witness the person has the tendency of\nmaking fun of you and putting you down in front of friends, remember such an\nattitude will not contribute in a strong relationship in the future. This will\nstart hurting your self-esteem and later, your relationship with him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Thorough background check<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

No matter how well you know the guy or your parents know the guy\u2019s family or if he is been referred by your own relatives, never ever proceed with a marriage proposal without a thorough background check. Check particularly the following areas:-<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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  • If the guy or his family accurately speak about the guy\u2019s professional situation.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  • Any history of emotional and physical harming others.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  • Financial stability.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    Discover expert tips to overcome pre-wedding anxieties in arranged marriages. Shivani Misri Sadhoo offers guidance for a stress-free start to married life.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":310,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,5],"tags":[147,12,9,107,109],"class_list":["post-308","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marriage-counselling-advises-for-new-parents","category-marriage-counselling-tips","tag-indian-wedding","tag-marriage-counselling-services-in-delhi","tag-marriage-counsellor-shivani-misri-sadhoo","tag-relationship-advice-for-women","tag-relationship-counselling-for-young-couples"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.saarthicounsellingservices.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/308","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.saarthicounsellingservices.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.saarthicounsellingservices.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.saarthicounsellingservices.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.saarthicounsellingservices.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=308"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/www.saarthicounsellingservices.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/308\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3013,"href":"https:\/\/www.saarthicounsellingservices.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/308\/revisions\/3013"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.saarthicounsellingservices.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/310"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.saarthicounsellingservices.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=308"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.saarthicounsellingservices.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=308"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.saarthicounsellingservices.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=308"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}