No matter how hard it may sound maintaining a wonderful relationship is not easy, especially in today\u2019s fast lifestyle. Without much warning romance can dry out, marital life can turn monotonous and if couples still don\u2019t pay the right attention then their marriage can slip from bad to worse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So how people can identify it\u2019s time for them to give strong attention to their relationship?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
India\u2019s eminent relationship expert<\/strong><\/a> and marriage counsellor Shivani Misri Sadhoo<\/strong><\/a> shares that prior to a relationship starting to sour, there are certain body language signs that couples exhibits. She shares if couples pay attention to these warning signs, they can identify it\u2019s time to focus hard on their relationship. \u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n 1. Observe the pupils<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Generally, eyes can tell, a story about one’s relationship. When people are sexually attracted\u00a0to someone, their pupils generally dilate in the moment of intimacy. The change of pupils happens subconsciously; hence it’s a good indicator of your partner\u2019s interest in you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n So pay attention to your partner\u2019s eye, if you witness the pupils getting shorter when you get intimate or go for a kiss \u2013 remember it may be a sign that something is deeply bothering your partner. Look for the right moment and discuss if something is bothering your partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 2. Stonewalling<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n If a person turns their back on their partner, hangs up the phone before the conversation is over, or tunes out, it is referred to as stonewalling. Not taking your partner’s thoughts or perspective into consideration is a major red flag.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 3. Touching neck during conversation<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n In emotional situations, people have tendency to find ways to comfort ourselves. Especially, women, in particular, typically touch their neck or throat. Oftentimes, touching the neck or throat indicates that someone is keeping something from another person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 4. Conversation and attention<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Check how your partner reacts or pay attention to you when you are in conversation with him\/her? If he\/she plays with his\/her phone, nods without listing or worse, completely ignore you, then you its time you must introspect yourself, try to identify why your partner feels disinterested during the conversation. Sometimes it can be a simple thing like \u2013 your partner is too tired to listen to you or he\/she doesn\u2019t feel interested on your topic or sometimes it can be something else. Hence talk to your partner if you witness this body language.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 5. Leaning away<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Couples from healthy relationship have tendency to lean toward one another with their bodies, legs, shoulder and even chairs. If you or your partner starts to seat away from each other, or even if you both sit in one sofa, your body points in opposite direction to each other \u2013 it could mean that you both are disinterested in connecting with each other. 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